Where to meet a good guy?

I am a happily married women, but my sister-in-law just went through a really really nasty break up from a guy she was with for almost 10yrs... I love going out with her, and she is great person, but I would love to give her advice on where to meet a guy. She does go out with her single friends, but its to "dive" bars.

Anyone have ANY suggestions on where I can send my sister in law to meet a nice guy? She deserves it!

I would really stay away from the bars.
So many single people out there looking
for love, finding heartache instead. After
a long relationship breaking up,maybe it's
not a bad thing to stay single for a liitle while.

I went through a pretty nasty breakup last summer which invloved the cops and
I was with the guy for 3 yrs. I was in the mind set that there are no good guys
out there. That was until my sister got my out a website called plenty of fish.
It's a dating /friendship type website kind of like Lavalife only free and for
younger people. I met my now boyfriend there. It's been going great for
us. I am so glad that I tried the site out because if my sister had not pushed
me to try it I probably would still be single today. So even though so people
frown upon the internet it is not all bad.

Internet dating is not for everyone,
it really depends on the person. Some
people will find love online. The main
thing is being safe. If you would like
to try it remember,you never know who
is on the other end of your computer.

I just want to know if your sister
has found a good guy yet? If not,
tell her to hang in there. Being single
for a little while is fine. When she does
find love,it might be her future husband.
Give us an update when you have the
time.

I do agree with you JNCA, Internet dating is not for everyone and you do
take a chance with it giving the fact that you do not know wnho is on the
other end and not everyone is as they seem. My update about my sister
is as follows, She has not found a guy yet that she stays with long. She
bounces from guy to guy a lot and I find that she does not take enough time
out for herself. She is the kind of woman who does not stay single for long.
However I wish her the best when it comes to love. Just remember in any
situation to keep your head up and for some women it takes long to find that
special someone but sometimes taking that extra time can be very rewarding
and worth it!

Wow some nice suggestion from people about good guys.

my sister in law hasnt found anyone either. I did, however, hear about this organization that offers only single people to do outdoor adventures together.. like bike riding, horseback riding...etc... its a way to get her out with others .... im going to suggest it to her, and let you guys know what happens.

That sounds like fun. It should feel comfortable,
being that everyone there will be single.I think
she might like it. How nice of you to help your friend
find a date. Yes, let us know how it goes. Maybe this
will turn out to be the best thing for her.

This message was edited 1 time. Last update was at 29/07/2010 17:33:17

I think it's true as JCNA said, online dating isn't for everyone either.
I hope she does find somebody who will love and cherish her.
It's hard especially after a break up, but I am sure there's a lot
good guys out there and hopefully she will find love again!

There's not a specific place to find a "good guy". I know this sounds cliche, but he will eventually appear. I met my boyfriend in college, I wasn't looking for him, I was there to better myself.

All I can say is that you won't find a lasting relationship in a bar.